Porn and masturbation did not factor into my life until much later, likely due to the fear of one of my parents bursting into my room unannounced at any moment in time because god forbid anyone have a closed door.

Perhaps because I grew up in an immigrant household where internet privileges were sparse at best – or perhaps because privacy was even harder to come by – I did not grow up watching porn. There is a phenomenon in the lesbian community that many of us experience but few of us can explain: we are very, very turned on by two dudes banging.